Step Out Of Your Christian Dating Comfort Zone

Has dating become a tiresome activity for you? If you are a single Christian and ready to meet a life partner, the whole dating scene may have become quite frustrating.
Think about it – the same places, same people, and same small talk conversation. It’s time to snap out of it and step out of your Christian dating comfort zone.Most people tend to stick to what is familiar and comfortable to them – familiar places, familiar people. What is a comfort zone? A comfort zone is a self-imposed, self-built imaginary zone consisting of various elements – friends, people, places and activities. The dating comfort zone consists of the same circle of people around which you find a date (i.e. dating your friends’ friend) and the same methods of finding a date (i.e. friends’ parties, church community activities and gatherings, local pubs and clubs).If you are still single and getting tired of the same old dating scene, now is a better time than any to finally step out of your dating comfort zone. Try out new places, seek out and make new friends, and maybe even experiment with a new look for yourself. The fear of the unknown is what hinders most people from stepping out of their so-called comfort zone. Fear of rejection and failure are also common reasons. Here are a few tips to help make the transition as painless as possible.

  • Make a list of activities that you have always wanted to try. What are some of the sport activities you are interested in? Maybe golf, scuba diving, tennis, or badminton? How about finally joining the new gym or signing up for flamenco dance lessons? Not only do you learn and enjoy a new hobby, you are able to meet new friends and potential dates in the process.

If you are afraid that you will look like a fool when trying the new sport, don’t despair. Everybody, even the best athletes, fumbles when they play a sport for the first time. You can’t expect to be hitting smash after smash on your first go on the tennis court now can you?

  • Go online and join a specialist Christian dating service. With online dating, you can find thousands, even millions, of single Christian men and women. You can search for singles that share your beliefs, interests and hobbies. You can even find out more about a potential date before going out on an actual date by reading their profile.

The real beauty of online dating is that you can search for a date from the comforts of your home at any time of the day or night. If you are still a bit shy about stepping out of your dating comfort zone, online dating provides you with the privacy and anonymity that will help make the process of stepping out of your comfort zone much easier.

So step out of your dating comfort zone today!  There is not much to lose (if anything at all) and so much to gain. There is a whole world of new adventures, experiences and Christian singles just waiting to be discovered. Good luck!

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